Tidying vs Cleaning

Tidying and cleaning are often confused and used interchangeably. Yet, they mean two different processes. Understanding this can be a game changer in our tidying/cleaning efforts.

According to the dictionary, ( I am paraphrasing here) clutter is a bunch of random items lying around in an untidy mass (or mess?). Think junk drawer. Tidying is defined as bringing order to something, organizing things in an orderly way- dealing with the untidy mass mentioned above and putting things away neatly to calm the chaos.

Cleaning is the act of removing dust, dirt or grime from a surface.

How often have we ordered our kids to clean their room when what we actually meant was for them to tidy their room, unless of course you actually wanted them to scrub the walls and mop the floors.

Tidying and cleaning are closely related. Focus on one at a time without letting the other distract you. Tidy first, clean after. Tidying makes cleaning easier and less time consuming and you are more likely to clean a tidy space than an untidy, cluttered one. Pick up, put things away first to make cleaning more efficient and effective.

The KonMari Method® is all about tidying, making maintaining tidy spaces sustainable, which in turn makes cleaning more efficient, saving you time and energy to invest in other fulfilling and enriching activities! Plus, you get to enjoy a space that is both- tidy and clean!

As a KonMari® Consultant/tidying coach, I am happy to help you in your tidying quest!

Sincerely,

Meera

The KonMari Method - a Mindfulness Practice

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When I speak of the KonMari method, I often describe it as a mindful way of decluttering and organizing. This maybe too abstract for some to visualize, especially the skeptics. What is mindfulness? How does it relate to tidying and the KonMari Method?

The first word I associate with mindfulness is - awareness - intense awareness of something, anything, everything. Nothing is taken for granted, and nothing is simply because. We might say to someone ‘be mindful of your language’- What does that mean? Be aware of the words that you use, choose your words carefully. In the course of the day we hardly notice our breathing, but during yoga or meditation, we are mindful of every inward and outward breath we take. We feel, we focus, we observe and we experience every breath. That is mindfulness. Does the KonMari method incorporate elements of mindfulness in it? Yes, yes, yes! In the KonMari method, nothing is chosen or discarded ‘just because’. Any action we take, whether to keep something or to discard something, is intentional. Throughout the process of tidying we hone the skill of asking ourselves questions about seemingly mundane objects. It is, in reality, less about the object and more about the process and what it teaches us. Every time you choose to keep or give away something you are conversing with yourself, and as we hone this skill, we transfer it to other areas of life. You start being more aware and intentional about the choices you make. I saw this in action with one of my clients. As we worked through the clothes, she became intensely aware that most of her wardrobe was black. When we gather things together and sort in the KonMari manner, we start seeing patterns in what we wear, what we buy, what we own. It tells us something about the choices that we tend to make and creates a deepened awareness about our own selves.That is mindfulness. When my client was on holiday, she saw something at a store that she was tempted to buy. She told me proudly that she stopped herself and reflected- I have so many black things. Why am I buying this? Do I have anything else similar that I own? Am I buying this because it’s cheap? She then held up the dress and said “oh, I do like you, but no thank you!” That is mindfulness in action! Nurtured by the skills that the KonMari Method teaches us, it slowly becomes a mindset and a way of life.

The KonMari method creates a deepened awareness about all the things we surround ourselves with and leads to an introspective dialog helping us to shine the light on what is enriching us and what is limiting us. We acknowledge, appreciate and give thanks throughout the process, irrespective of whether something is staying or being sent away. KonMari is a class apart. It is unlike traditional organizing methods. There are no short cuts here, no camouflaging of clutter in fancy bins and boxes. It is intentional. It is revolutionary. It is life changing.

It is a mindfulness practice.

Sincerely,

Meera